How Ego Can Hinder A Twin Flame Relationship

by richee on January 19, 2015 · 1 comment

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How Ego Can Hinder A Twin Flame Relationship


A friend of mine sent this to me and I felt compeled to share. Feel free to give me your opinion. Have a blessed day.

“I need him to say he is sorry, I need her to communicate with me, I have nothing to offer, I can’t trust him/her…I need a sign….”

Ok the higher selves don’t require any of these things from their other half. Because of their connection to each other the only true need they have is to come together physically without their bodies egos setting stipulations for the relationships…You know the problem with the ego in a twin flame relationship is that it still tries to treat it like it is just a physical connection that needs to be propped up with all these physical requirements.

Unfortunately every physical requirement that you tack on to a twin flame relationship gives the chaos around us something to work with… You need communications and almost instantly the person stop calling and e-mailing because chaos makes its connection with the ego and convince it that communication is causing the other person to take you for granted…while your ego is insisting that if the person cared they would do these things.

Have you noticed when you look in the mirror and make a face you see that same face looking back at you? Well let us apply this idea to a twin flame relationship. You spend a lot of time wondering if it is going to work if he/she is going to turn around. And when nothing happens in the time frame you feel is right you start to think about giving up. Well here is where the mirror image comes in. Because he is reflective this would mean he reflects the hopes, doubts, fears,thoughts and disappointment that we feel. Of course you feel this because he/she isn’t doing any thing unfortunately as we feel these things about him/her he/she starts to doubt it will work, fear you will not or do not want him/her. And the roller coaster ride of doubt and fear on both sides start.

I have noticed that many of you desire your partners ego to go away so that the higher self may take a more active and direct part in the relationship…I have also heard about the baggage that the Twin flame has and needs to get rid of…However as I continue to work with the relationships I notice that there is baggage on both sides and an abundance of ego on both sides…because the TF is not personally there to defend their selves they get painted as having the biggest issues…please remember that a great deal of the problems in a TF relationship can be seen on both sides of the relationship because of the soul connection many of the issues are the same to some degree on both sides…

As soon as you refocus inward to your higher self and be very honest with your self about the baggage you are carrying and the ego the size of the empire state building that is constantly whispering in your ears about your TFs short comings then began to do something about them he/she will also start to take care of that which appears to be such a major problem in his/her life…

Baggage may not always be recognizable as such in our own lives…but past relationship issues that are unresolved and unreleased, fears and doubts about the TF’s feeling which are usually confused with the ego’s feelings…and accepted as the “true feelings” in the situation…learning to recognize that the body and soul are not the same until they have merged on both a conscious and subconscious level which leaves no room for the ego to ruin things and set up false scenarios with the help of it’s ever present friend chaos. All baggage must be cleared away but it must first be recognized as such…Chaos does not need a lot to work with ego and baggage gives it an enormous amount of building blocks to put that wall up between you and your TF a wall that you are unaware of your part in building which makes it all the more difficult to remove…

You would like your twin flame to let go of his/her ego so that the higher self may direct the body…You must know that because of the connection between you as long as your ego is ruling the day your twin souls ego will also do the same…

I know that many of you are not really aware of the ego still being in control. When the ego is in control you experience fear, doubt, worry, confusion and bouts of concern as to if and when your TF relationship will work out…

When the Soul is allowed to be in control of this entire journey there is a “knowing” about how everything will come out…remember the affirmation “I am now one with my higher self my higher self guides my daily life and shows me how to love and be loved by my twin flame.” You have got the first part right now you need to work on the rest of that affirmation being manifested in your lives… So that it will also manifest in your TF’s life as well…

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Nimat November 8, 2013 at 11:36 pm

This is exactly what I needed to see this morning as a reminder and a wake up call. Thanks for posting.


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