How many times have you met someone who touched your heart and you have asked, “Is this person, ‘The One’?” This expression refers to “The One For Me….”
From the time we are able to desire a partner, most people seek The One, the person who is here to make them feel complete. That person would be a lifetime partner, always there with unconditional love, compassion and understanding. The One is here to share your journey, through all of its detours, and to support your decisions as you evolve. When you meet The One, if you are lucky enough to meet that person, you do not have to ask, “Is this The One?” You will know.
Through the years, who we are, and what we become, our personal needs and goals, changes. To find The One, who would compliment us throughout our journey, is certainly a challenge. At a given point in time we can meet a soul who compliments our journey at that point, but will it last?
A beautiful, educated, female client in her 20’s, asked me about meeting The One, meaning her Soulmate. She looked at me and said, “Ellie, I’m The One, not a guy!” You find The One when you find yourself, by healing and creating balance. The One refers to the Union of Self, finding balance, and high self esteem.
The One is your soul, divided by the barriers of Time and Space, above and below, feeling naked and alone in third dimension and struggling to find the answers to age old questions…Why am I here? What is my mission?
We are genetically encoded to seek The One, the feeling growing stronger as consciousness evolves. The One, as your Twin Flame, is your polar opposite, yin / yang, the balance aspect of your soul who makes you feel complete and waits in higher frequency for soul reunion often guiding your path in third dimension. This reunion comes at Zero Point Merge when your consciousness returns to its natural state of light. While in physical reality, young people search for The One most of their lives.
Middle Age people still seek that person, but their goals with that person have changed. Older people still seek a companion, The One become less a person of ‘passion’ and more about ‘compassion.’ The One is linked with many aspects of Love: Spiritual [pure consciousness connection], Physical [passion], Romantic [feeds the heart and fantasies], Emotional [understands and fills our many needs], Mental [growing together and sharing new choices]
Do you think you have found The One? Have you found, then lost, The One? Do you have something to release connected to The One? Have you concluded that you will never meet The One? When you say that, are you saddened by the thought? If you do not meet The One, will you settle for another? Can you be alone and not be lonely? Does being alone scare you? Do you long for romance and passion?
Do not look for The One. Live your life. Embrace the moment. Be kind and caring. If The One for you is out there, and you are BOTH ready, you will attract each other by synchronicity, no other way.