Twin Flame Rejection – Experiencing Distance and Pain with Your Twin Flame

by richee on January 3, 2013 · 15 comments

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Twin Flame Rejection – Experiencing Distance and Pain with Your Twin Flame



I’ve been told twice now that the man I care very much for and I are twin flames. I’d like to find some divine answers as to why we have such a hard time coming together.

Hello, this is the Archangel Michael. I am stepping forward as a representative of your own heart and the team of light beings who work with you and your beloved.

Yes, my dear, the man you think of is your twin flame, as you know without needing me to say. You ask about the difficulties. I want you to know that because of the nature of your connection, many energies are activated within you when you interact with him. Please know, that you requested to work through many heavy energies through knowing this person. As you focus on clearing those energies which are within you, the obstacles in your path will clear as well. This will also happen as he clears the energies within himself.

This is a beautiful opportunity for you two to heal yourselves. When you finally come together, it will be a beautiful moment. Much healing energy will flow from the moment you come together, physically, and flow to all the world, blessing the Earth and everyone present on her, ever.

This is truly a gift for your life and we are working with you to make the transition to life with this person as smooth as possible. Know that we can only help you as much as you allow us to. We want to bring you many energies, in your sleep and as you go through your day and your experiences of life, to help you smooth your life experience into more and more joyful, more and more pleasant ways of living.

May we help you in this way?

If you say “yes” in your heart or outloud, we will instantly flow you all the energies that have been waiting to come to you, and we will also continue to support you in accepting this flow of energy over the next few months as you prepare to meet your twin flame in your life in the most perfect way that you have dreamed. This will cause you much personal healing, as well as those around you, as it will also heal him.

Feel free to ask for me, Michael, or any other Being who you feel a connection to. We are all available for you to support you.

With Love,


Our questioner went on after this response to ask more questions. She shared that she feels quite connected to her twin flame, totally in love with him. While he clearly feels similarly for her, he maintains a distance from her and she experiences much pain. She longs to be with him, more than he allows her to be. Yet she can’t seem to let go of him, her friends wonder if she lost her self love. We’re sharing Marko’s response because we feel that many people experience similar situations. Marko and I have experienced the push away and pull back in close dynamic for several months as well. I understand it can be very painful. I hope our responses help.


Remember, the energies in these messages, even the above message from Archangel Michael, are available to anyone who asks for them. If you resonate with this question, simply talk to Michael, and request that he send you the healing energies he offered in the message.

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Brandy January 8, 2013 at 2:04 pm

My twin n I have been separated for almost a year. He is in a relationship with someone else. I have done a tremendice amount of healing during that time and made peace with not being able to have a relationship withh him. I do however wish to have contact and a friendship with him, but he won’t speek to me at all!! Why has he shunned me?? :(


annette field February 9, 2013 at 4:41 am

i dont know whats happening in my life with this twin flame thingy, mine all started in april 2008 and its just been pain since, and its not getting any better, its a long long weary road that to me is leading to where i really dont know !!!! i feel it is so confussing that it actually makes me very depressed, its too complicated to understand, i long to be normal again and to fit into a normal world ……


admin February 9, 2013 at 12:06 pm

Dear Annette,
It sounds like you are going through a rough road. Yes, it may possibly be a twin flame union like you mentioned but each person we meet are meant to give or teach us a lesson in this life. Hence, you may look from that angle and be bless to know that person. Go with the flow and listen closely to your heart..


annette field February 13, 2013 at 11:29 pm

i do listen to my heart a lot, but i still cant understand whats happening, when i met him, my whole world made sense, i felt unbelievable happiness, we only chatted the one time for about 3 hours, but were on the same ship for a week and just to pass him each day was enough for me, we never had physical contact apart from a quick touch of his arm, but our eyes met and then i found myself thrown into chaos….. the next day we were both wearing sun shades/glasses, so we only made eye contact once during the week.
the 3 hour chat we didnt make eye contact directly, he kept avoiding me, there was 5 of us in the room chatting and he kept avoiding me, but when i looked he looked away, it was a very magical and strange meeting, his presence to me was beautiful and powerful. but on one occasion he had no option but to look me right in the eye and thats when it happened !! i actually felt and heard the roaring of bikes,,,,,,,,, lol


Lexi February 10, 2013 at 11:39 am

I am currently experiencing this with my twin whom lives on the other side of the world from me. He recognised the same oneness I did at the very beginning, our connection is nothing I have ever felt before & he shared the same experience.. I was feeling so complete and yet one day out of the blue he stops speaking to me… it is one of the most painful experiences I have ever had, I can feel his pain and yet we have never physically met..


Susana February 13, 2013 at 6:38 am

Hey, I met my Twin 4 years ago and a lot of cyncronistic events had happened every since we met at the point that we are now living in the same neighborhood he was married when I met him now he is separated but he recently told me it wasn’t convinient for me to be that close to him, and that he have never respond anything to me , he knows I love him as I wrotte him 2 letters and every since we met he has been in my dreams and he had said me he is in love with me and he loves me there the dreams are so real that I have to writte them down otherwise I feel Im going nuts, but he doesn’t want me around I don’t get it???


richee February 15, 2013 at 1:56 pm

Hi Susana,
If he is really your possible twin flame, you may just ask him your question and let him know your feelings. There is no ego between twin flame and twin flame is a reflection of one another..


PorscheLeigh February 17, 2013 at 9:52 am

My experience with a very real twin flame hasn’t been one of any sort of romance/relationship for the future; quite the contrary, for me, it’s been learning about myself and getting some unusual help. As it turns out, I don’t even like this guy. It appears that he hasn’t grown but instead, declined steadily. I can see the benefit of a twin being a “mirror” to an extend or to whatever extend I need. “We” as a collective, that’s all twinflames, help each other to ‘grow to self’ and its a higher power/5th dimension that we’re heading towards.
I’m done here with mine, and I’m glad it’s over. My journey was rough… but as cliche’ as it sounds, the peace I’ve found is incredible. A wholeness, peaceful being. :) And that’s alright.
Love and light to all. Porscheleigh


Lost twin soul February 20, 2013 at 11:42 pm

I can relate to everyone here and what you’re going through. I’m married 20 plus years and a busy mom. I wasn’t looking for love and was blindsided to find my tf especially being 16 years younger. Why did he have any interest in me? I thought I was going through a midlife crisis or something. I was being way to logical overthinking it all. The attention was nice but he’s the only person my entire life who understood me, I could truly be myself and knew he loved me as is and didn’t judge me. He’s the greatest person I’ve ever met and no question that he’s my twin. He didnt want to cause me marital problems. Im no cheater but the magnetism was so strong and it scared me! so he disappeared. He’s been running over a year. I thought he was just playing me being younger but in my heart knew it was more. He’s definitely my mirror. I see things in him and realized I’m the same. i dont judge or blame him. Im just so overwhelmed and confused!!! I don’t want a romantic relationship but wish we could talk. Im not leaving my husband and ruining my kids lives when I know it wouldnt work out. Even if I was single hes 16 yrs younger. I want him to get married and experience kids. I know Im supposed to work on self and the separation is to make us stronger. It’s hard for me to accept this is what God wanted to happen to me. I didn’t go looking for all this. Every day I try to find answers but feel so alone. My tf won’t speak or answer texts but reminders make me crazy every damn day!!! Can’t really discuss with my husband who thinks i was crazy to trust that some younger guy wanted to be friends. My tf wasnt my dirty secret and he knew we were close friends. I just feel this relationship is doomed to happen. I guess our souls aren’t ready?? So I try to be happy but I can’t stop thinking about him. And I feel everything I do isn’t making things better. Ironically when he was in my life I felt stronger and complete. We were making each other better people and making the world a better place. I’m miserable but wouldn’t change the few months having him in my life. I get some comfort knowing I’m not crazy and others are struggling too. I am more spiritual now and just have to have faith God will help me find my way.


Maria March 7, 2013 at 6:12 pm

Reading this has reduced me again to sobbing – I’m not sure i can bear the pain of the rejection/separation -


richee March 17, 2013 at 3:12 pm

Yes, it is not an easy journey but keep in mind for growing spiritually, the time will come if it is meant to be..


matthew boyer March 8, 2013 at 6:21 pm

Archangel Michael,

I feel the same as many do who have commented…please help me grow spiritually so I can once again reunite with my twin flame…she has also got in to another relationship and i feel i have lost her…what can i do?


matthew boyer March 8, 2013 at 6:30 pm

lost twin soul: re

I am going through similar things with the knowing that we were stronger when we were together…she never judged me, nit even once!! That has never happened in a relationship I have ever had…i do know one thing, though…i am glad i do we are here to show each other and every living thing unconditional’s a hard road…i am at peace, but my emotional body still tries to take control, we must remember that this is only the beginning my dear light beings…we are here to help with our twin flames to change the world of how love and romance is viewed…WE..have been chosen…i know that now, and if i can help anyone or support any of you in this endeavor…i am here!..Me finding this website when i did…was no accident…EVERYTHING happens for a reason…nothing is chance!!

love and light to all who read this
Matthew Boyer
seperated twin flame


beth July 19, 2013 at 5:06 am

Matthew, Your story is very truthful and just wanted to say thanks so much for the wonderful inspiration you give . my twin still allows me on their facebook but nothing else . Since our breakup in 2011 something so wild was seeing series of numbers like 111,11:11,222,and so forth. this happened to me in November 2011, 2 months after breaking up and since then . I can only be hopeful that what is meant to be will be one day soon . thanks Hollywoodrags


Palamani July 8, 2013 at 5:54 pm

I met my twin soul almost two and a half years ago. I was married with 3kids and was going through a marriage with nothing much to talk about. By the time, I met my twin soul, my life was just a piece of blank paper with responsibilities towards with kids, meditations and prayers. I got to know my twin soul through very unusual circumstances. He lives in another continent and married. And I only get to see him once a year for a couple of days of weeks. I truly felt a strong loving emotion from him and I also suddenly developed very strong loving emotions for him. However, being business partners, the 2 and a half years, we went through so much of severe conflicts, distrust and what not. But, all these only made the love within us grew stronger. Both of us know that we are twin souls, but, something is holding us back from being united. I ended my miserable marriage and he is now on his running dynamism. I guess that he cannot accept the fact that he is seeing his mirror, his true love and his perfect match. Maybe, fear that it wont last long. I don’t know. It is sometime very painful to know that your twin soul is running away from you. It hurts deeper than anything else. Sometime, I can feel that the world should end at the moment and there be no tomorrow and I can burst out in tears. I just want to be with him. I don’t want him to change anything about him, his life or his family for me. Just be with me being himself. That is what I fell in love for. Didn’t I?

I just continue with my life meditating and putting my faith in GOD hoping that one day he will stop running and come looking for me. Sometime, I am scared that when he come looking for me, he may not be able to find me or I may not be around anymore.


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