This phase is the tough one. Twin flame dance phase starts after you’ve been in a relationship with your twinflame for a while. In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to surface . This happens for both twinflames. This seems difficult to go through at the human level, but it is actually a truly divine process in which the Twinflames get deeply cleansed with each other’s help. This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.
Once you understand the true purpose of this phase, It will seem to be totally different from what you might have previously thought. This is like a Divine Dance of the star-crossed lovers… It is amazingly beautiful how they transmute (convert) anything that is not love into the purity of Unconditional Love… until nothing but Only Love remains in both twinflames.
The word used to describe this phase, ‘dance’, also contains the essence of the whole ‘Runner and Chaser’ act. One twinflame tries to escape as the mind refuses to believe in this in this divine perfection of love. The other, who knows it is real, chases the one who is running. This goes on for as long as the runner runs, but they are actually doing all this in what can be called a ‘circle’ of the sacredness of the twinflame connection. There is nowhere to escape. They keep coming back to the same point until the mind gives in and the Spiritual truth is ultimately realized by both the Twinflames.
This is also the phase where both twinflames get spiritually enlightened… This is when they search and find the spiritual reality. The intensity and the confusion (at, of course, just the human level) that this phase brings makes them want to find out the reason and the purpose of all this. And that’s when they find it and understand the ultimate spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, or if you believe you might be, and are trying to figure out what’s happening, you’re probably in this phase.
What Happens in this Phase –
This phase brings many arguments and fights. This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.
The twinflame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them, when in reality its in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.
All the energetic ‘clutter’ (or Karma) that you might have gathered in hundreds and thousands of incarnations on the planet, is in a way pulled out of you by your twinflame.
This clutter, when shaken up, irritates you before it is transmuted into Love. That’s what causes arguments.
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2.) The Blame game Each twinflame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twinflame.
While your twinflame reflects your own unresolved issues, you think its in them.
Also, deep seated fears and frustrations surface. So you think Its happening because of the other and start blaming each other. You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.
3.) The runner and the Chaser.
The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)
One twinflame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man) The Runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship. This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.
The other twinflame, now, becomes what I call the ‘Chaser’ (usually the woman) The Chaser is spiritually more aware than the runner at some level and tries to ‘chase’ or ‘run after’ the runner. The chaser usually wants some sort of commitment at this point. This happens as the chaser subconsciously or consciously wants to get over with this tough phase so that both of them can reunite.
The Chaser is deeply shocked and hurt by the ‘running’ and unexpected behavior of the Runner. This is when they feel the need to understand what really is happening and so they start searching or reading about it. This usually leads to the enlightenment of the Chaser.
The Runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort, Or by receiving a ‘Soul Shock’ when the Chaser gives up and goes away from the Runner Twinflame.
The Phase gets stretched longer the more the Runner runs. Ultimately, the runner does return and the Karma is finally fully resolved.